Advice.

Anonymous asked: I haven't seen or talked to my boyfriend in 3 weeks. It was my birthday on sunday, and he didn't call or anything of the sort. It's our 3 month tomorrow and I can bet he won't call. I always want to call him, but then I think if he wanted to talk to me, he would. He was recently in lock up, so I understood that we couldn't talk or hang out much, but he got out last week and still he doesn't call. what should I do?

Sounds like he’s a tool. Honestly, if he hasn’t even tried to contact you in 3 weeks, and didn’t even call you on your birthday, he doesn’t love you. You should call him and either tell him to talk to you more, or you’re dumping him. No one should have to deal with that.

Anonymous asked: So, i asked my bestfriend not to get with the boy i had a thing with in the past, he's one of my bestfriends now and i just preferred if she didnt. she did it anyways, infront of me.. and i have a feeling she's going to do it again even though i asked her not too. I don't know what to do.

Sounds like shes not your best friend if she did something you told her not to do, and it clearly upsets you. I would talk to her about it. No best friend should do that, ever.

Anonymous asked: Hey sweetheart. I'm unhappy.

Please don’t be unhappy. There’s so many things in this world to be happy about, and I know you can find them. <3

Anonymous asked: kayy soo theres this boy and we had a thing like a year ago and then we just stopped and now hes like one of my bestestfriend and he resantly told me that he likes me again. but the thing is i cant tell him i like him because hes still going to keep doing what he dose, soo whats the point of me tellign a guy i like him when im going to get heart broken in the end ? and latly i feel like were driffting a part what should i do ? im soo lost and confused .

It sounds like maybe you should find a new a different guy. Sometimes when you’re with someone and you break up, it’s hard to be friends afterwards because you two still love each other. If you’re going to end up heartbroken anyway just tell him that you guys are better off friends. Or, if you just can’t do that try just talking to him about it, and maybe he can find more time for you.

Anonymous asked: how do i tell if this guy likes me. he always texts me or messages me on f.b. but itseems like its just bc hes bored. and he stares at me a lot in class and gets nervous in the hallway when he sees me sometimes so it seems like he might. and hes really intimidating and a little older so he might be caught off guard bc someone like me, whos more of a so called goodytwoshoes, likes him. but i just dont know how to know for sure if he feels the same way back or how to ask him. id ask him while were alone, but the problem is we never are and im afraid if i ask him to hang out itl get more awkward and just cause more of a problem rather than solving another one.

If he’s constantly talking to you, I’m sure he likes you! I would definitely puck up some courage to ask him to hang out, maybe whenever you see him in the hallway, you never know what could happen! It won’t get more awkward, trust me. :)

Anonymous asked: My friends are my roommate and friends that are not my roommate are ALWAYS IN MY ROOM. They are nasty, they dont clean, they leave shit in my room all the fucking time, and they become annoying in less then an hour. I sorta kinda love them but being with them 24/7 and MORE is really annoying what can i do with out being a bitch cause i kinda become one.... just like a few mins ago

Haha, well they are invading your personal space, and that is never okay with me. Let them know not to leave their trash in your room. If you never speak up for yourself they will just continue doing it. Just tell them very kindly to let them have your space and not to trash it, so they don’t get angry at you about it.

Anonymous asked: so theres this guy that i use to have a thing with. lets call him tigger. we use to text 24/7 and we hung out a couple times but we really werent that close, i really liked him though. we hung out with different crowds. then one day at the end of october (our "thing" started at like the beginning of september) we just stopped talking, and he stopped texting me. then i went out with this douchebag but im over him and douchebag goes out with my friend so hes whatever and im over him. yet even though its been 6 months i still cant stop thinking about tigger. he blocked me on facebook and i honestly have no idea why. theres probably no chance of me being with tigger and i know that but no one will match up to what he is. what should i do?

Well, there has to be a reason he just stopped talking to you. You should just confront him about it in person, and ask him what you did that deserved all of this. If you never talk to him about it he’ll just continue to ignore/block you. I say go for it, you never know what could happen.

too-relevant asked: Okay so I'm one of those "I don't need a boyfriend to be happy" type in my group of somewhat experienced friends. Honestly I put up that feminist/ I don't give a shit about guys facade but in reality I want someone to like me like very girl have wished for. Whew just wanted to get that off my chest. :) Thanks

Of course it’s nice to put off that feeling, but I mean it’s nice to let people know what you want! If you keep acting like you don’t need a boyfriend to be happy, guys might think that you don’t want to be with them! Just make sure you’re happy, and thats all that matters.

Anonymous asked: aww, thanks for the advice. yeah, it does take a lot of courage to do that.. but i don't know if i can do it. i'm really shy when it comes to crushes - especially when i don't even talk to them. :( blah.

you’re welcome<3

and yes it does. But trust me, you’ll be so happy that you did talk to him! Please try it ^_^

jess-cori asked: lmao not really askin' a question jus sayin hey jessica ;) i'm jessica lol :)

hahaha. hi! :)

Anonymous asked: me and one of my best guy friends are really really close and we mess around with each other a lot. We'll be shoving each other and pulling each others hair or hiding our backpacks and hugging each other , etc. I kinda like him but hes more in the friend zone for me. But I can't help thinking that he likes me. He keeps asking me why im not "open" with him about my feelings and things like that. Do you think hes trying to figure out if I like him or something? Cos hes constantly asking me that and bugging me about it.

It does sound like he might like you. If you aren’t sure, you should ask him! And if you don’t feel the same way you should let him know instead of dragging his heart around, because he could end up getting more hurt than you intended. 

darknessinourveins asked: It feels like the world is falling apart, but it's really wonderful to see someone like you posting these things and helping people

This is such a wonderful message. Thank you ^_^